We must be our own before we can be another's.
Ralph Waldo Emerson
You marry yourself when you have learned your lessons from your past relationships.
You marry yourself when you have come to a fork in the road, wanting to choose the higher road.
You marry yourself when you are done trying to fill the void – the void impossible to fill by anyone but you.
You marry yourself when you no longer want to fall asleep with your iphone on your pillow.
You marry yourself when you didn't get the motherly nurturance, protection and guidance you needed as a child, when the void is ready to be filled with love and self-respect.
You marry yourself when you are ready to write your vows – vows that reflect your unwavering commitment to the woman you are destined to become.
You marry yourself when you think you don't have time.
You marry yourself when you are feeling bold, not knowing how your life will change. But you are not going back.
You marry yourself when you are tired of holding up boundaries with people, places and things because you know that as soon as you officially say “Yes, I do” to yourself, your boundaries are replaced by Presence –
your wholehearted essence emanating through you, out of you.
You marry yourself when you are ready for more discernment – you have kissed enough frogs.
You marry yourself when you come to the realization that the best, most selfless gift you can give to your future (or current) relationship is the wholeness of YOU.
You marry yourself when you come to the realization that even if there will never ever be another relationship, you are happy because
You’re already with “The One.”
You can marry yourself at your kitchen table or in your backyard. Or on top of Haleakala (like I did).
But if you prefer something a bit more ceremonial – I got you.
How about two days at a luxury hot spring resort in the Northern California wine country?
What is
"Marry Yourself" Retreat?
"Marry Yourself" private 1:1 retreat is a 2-day initiation into an unwavering, meaningful, deep, and loving relationship with yourself.
During the hours leading up to your sacred Self-Marriage ceremony, you will go through the following process (can be customized):
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Physical, mental and emotional clearing through bodywork, journaling, guided meditation and breath work
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Engaging directly and symbolically with the five elements: wood, fire, earth, metal and water
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Writing your "soul vows"
You can have a solo wedding at any point in your life – especially if you have lost track of yourself, are looking for a life partner or desire to bring more depth and meaning into your already existing relationship.
What's Included?
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A preparation call before your arrival
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2-night accommodation (a private house at one of the original spas in California –a bohemian luxury hot springs resort surrounded by rolling vines)
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All meals (two dinners, two breakfasts and/or a lunch)
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Two 2-hour coaching sessions with Riikka
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A 2-hour massage with Riikka
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A spa-treatment
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Wedding ceremony
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Professional photos taken by award-winning In Her Image Photography during your ceremony (with 3 final images)
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My undivided attention (+solo time)
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Pick-up from and drop-off to the airport (Santa Rosa, CA)
Cost: This is a 5-figure investment. Non-refundable deposit is required to reserve this retreat. Full payment due one month before your arrival.
*flights not included*
Our Location
Historic, iconic resort in the beautiful Napa Valley, CA.
I married myself above the clouds on the top of Haleakala, Maui at sunrise in 2008. The air was cold and the light was divine. I had one witness. I was on a solo journey, driving around the island in an old, funky rental car. I had purchased a beautiful trinity ring in Paia a few days earlier. This was a profound experience for me and it changed me. This solo ritual was a crucial step in my spiritual evolution. And now I want to offer this opportunity to you.
If you choose to join me, it will be my honor and privilege to accompany you through this powerful portal. As a certified Spirit Coach®️ and Reiki Master I will help you release anything that is holding you back from saying a wholehearted "Yes" to yourself – to the most intimate and important relationship you will ever have.
Love,
